Letter from Mary Cutler Paulin to Frederick A Paulin, 17 August 1886
Henley Lodge
August 17th/86
My dear Fred,
I think it is some time since you have receipt of one of my scrawls I shant keep our a [illegible] as I forget to when I wrote last. We think perhaps you are coming to be not very pleased we are with the idea but at the same time we wish you to [illegible] yourself only as what is best for you with be best with all of us. Mr and Mrs Braund came to see us yesterday they both looked well and were pretty cheerful they think perhaps Charlie will come this autumn, I eel the awkward now the [illegible] are with you
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But think from what Emmie says they have been a great expense to you they seem to be getting on wonderfully. Herbert especially he would never have done this I [illegible] here. I think Emmie [illegible] will get used to the change after a little while. I should not mind coming at all and I am sure your father would like it but we must wait a while you will be glad to hear Dads health improves indeed he looks quite healthy has a new coat hat felt – in fact new things altogether looks quite a buck I shall
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Have to look sweets now I shall have [illegible] any from inst I should like to be able to keep this little house one it well – [illegibile] let of was to [illegible] of you. I have a discontented lot of grils at house now they are wanting to be independent like the boys they forget how messy they are Amy is being paid for her work now but Florence has been at home not well. Dr Rothern says the letting will never do for her, but she is again helping out Miss Bastorn as they are very busy. The garden is really
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Looking good since very difficult to last year. Mr Maclarin brought a gentleman from his bank to photograph us in front of house. If they are anything like I will send some we shall [illegible] this week. I do hope dear to hear you are better but fear you write have to be careful what you take to eat. I should like to have you home a while to see what I could do for you. We have indeed enable to be the careful for you even got thoughts such a terrible illness, Louise left you at trails as you do is pretty well air now. I shall be glad when she is secured
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It will do her good. Dr R says so too. Violet is still with the old people it is a good thing for us she will shop with them they cannot get a servant to remain any time.
Your Dad is in London this week he goes [illegible] trains when there is a cheap train. The girls all send their best love, Bess says tell him he will [illegible] to take me back with him. If he could. With my bet love and every kind wish your aff Mother
Love to all, just received a long letter from Emmie.
Who is Who:
Mr and Mrs Braund, and Charlie Braund – Charlie Braund emigrated to Winnipeg then Victoria with Frederick A Paulin. He worked with him in Birmingham, and it appears the families were also friends.
Emmie – is Emma Jane Jennings Paulin, married to Frederick’s brother Ernest
Herbert is Frederick’s brother Herbert Paulin.
Bess, Violet, Amy and Florence are Frederick’s sisters
Dr Rothern – no idea, but could be Florence’s employer
The reference to the “old people” is likely the grandparents, George and Sarah Paulin, in Henley-on-Thames




